7w6d

So I will be 8 weeks tomorrow, still spotting (though it stopped for yesterday afternoon and evening, today it is back but at least is mostly brown), and still without a doctor.

The hospital was suppose to call me yesterday, the never did.  So when we got back from our counselling appt this morning at 10:30 I called over.  First I got put on hold for almost 10 minutes and then the women comes on and says they didn't get the records from my RE.  Now I know this is BS because the person who I talked to on Friday said she had got them and was putting me in the computer and I know my RE would not have not sent the records.  So today's person says that yes I am in the computer, but they don't have the referral letters.  So I tell her that Friday person said you guys do so she took my number (again because I gave it to them on Friday) and says she will call back.  2 hours later - still no call, so I don't know what to think.  I guess I will have to call tomorrow and if I still get the run around call my RE because this is crazy.

On other news the counselling appt didn't go to well.  DH complained about how he was against me getting pregnant and only went along with it saying he had no choice and that now that I am having problems the place is a mess, etc.  I was really upset about this and the counsellor taking his side saying he should have a say in these matters.  He does have a freaking say, I couldn't really have done ivf without him, it isn't like I could just sleep with him during ovulation and lie to him and opps I'm pregnant.  Oh well, it isn't like we will be seeing this counsellor for much longer because once the harvard pilgrim ends we will stop our sessions since she doesn't take masshealth.

The good news today is dd's ssi backpay finally got put into her account.  I found out on Friday that it wasn't in there and that I had told them a wrong digit on her account number so the money got sent back and then the put her in suspended status.  I still don't know if we will get August 1 money on time, but at least the $1400 backpay is in there.  I have told dh that once the money goes into the account we will hire a cleaning lady since I can't do any housework being on bedrest right now.  So I placed an ad on craiglist this morning, but not sure if I will receive a response since I only need someone to do basic picking up in the living room, clean the floors, and do the dishes so it is only a few hours a week of work and I don't want to pay more than $10/hr.  Most of the cleaning ads (which there were only ones by companies) wanted 15-20 dollars an hour.  If I don't hear anything in the next week I am going to sign up on care.com and pay their annual fee and hire someone from there since there were many ladies on there willing to work for that cheap.  I really don't see the point with paying more since dh only makes $11 something an hour at his job.  I would just have him stay home one day a week if that is the case then pay someone else $15-20/hr.

This afternoon I have an appt with a new family doctor.  Unfortunately I have to bring dd since her toddler group class got cancelled for today.  Hopefully they will be able to at least do my bp and weigh me since I haven't had a regular prenatal appt yet and have no idea what my bp and weight is.