nothing ever goes right

Since this cycle started I had pinpointed ER date.  My last 2 cycles I had ER on day 14 and so I figured it would be the same this time and after this morning's scan it seemed like that was going to be true.
I now have 10 measurable follicles:
A 12.4 and 16.5 on the left and
A 9, 15.7, 16.7, 16.8, 16.9, 17.2, 17.9, 18.3 on the right.
I figured since I am now over 18 that tonight would be trigger day as I had planned for all along, but this just goes to show you how you can't plan anything with ivf.
My RE wants me to go another day.  To make matters worse she also wants me to stim tomorrow night as well as do the trigger and since I only have enough meds for tonight I had to pay $60 to refill the gonal-f and menopur only for one dose.  I am beyond pissed.  Also I have to make sure that the meds arrive tomorrow so dh will have to stay home the whole day (since I need to take dd out to the doctors and then to school) and cross our fingers that Fedex knocks on the door instead of just assume we are not here or deliver the package to the neighbors (has happened many times before).

And for more bad news I have to go back to Providence tomorrow morning for bloodwork and u/s.  This marks 4 freaking days in a row and probably my 10th monitoring appt.  I am not happy about this at all.  I don't even want to add up how much money I have wasted on gas and driving for this cycle.
And the 3rd reason this sucks is now it makes day 3 transfer day be Sunday (the day of my dd's birthday party).  I had to shoot everyone an email saying the date is now Saturday and hope that they get the message.

And lastly on why this sucks, it is going to snow here on Wednesday and Thursday.  It has only snowed twice this whole freaking winter and it decides to snow on those 2 days.  I had hoped if ER was on Wednesday that we could get on the road before the snow came, now we don't have that option and will need to drive in the middle of the storm :(

Oh just thought of a 5th reason - dd speech therapy will now be cancelled for this week since we will not be here on Thursday.

I really hope this cycle works out because I have had to put up with way too much and it isn't right.