Waiting in limbo

So today is 11 days past my ER.  I should be doing hpt right now.  Instead I am sitting here waiting for AF, which still has shown no signs of starting.  At least in a normal cycle I would be spotting right now.  Can't believe I am actually wishing for AF and the spotting to start.  The trigger should be out of my body by now so not sure what is holding up things.  Unfortunately until AF comes I can't move on.  Which is really depressing because I could have been pregnant by now, instead we are looking at least May to find this out.